Unloving
Part 1
If you look
into the mirror and you do not think you are the "fairest of them
all," you may have an Unloving spirit looking back at you! An Unloving spirit attaches itself to you to
make you feel rejected and cause you to reject yourself. It makes you feel unclean, unworthy, and like
you do not measure up. It makes you feel
that you are no good. When you look in
the mirror, you do not like what you see.
When you hear your voice, you do not like the way it sounds. When people look at you, you think they hate
you. You can see it in their eyes. So, you spend all your time debating with
yourself as to whether you belong on this planet or not. You stand in front of the mirror and comb
your hair this way and then that way. You
look at this wrinkle; you look at that sag.
You look at those eyes... the same old eyes that stare at you every
morning in the mirror. You spend your
whole day in a world of "not measuring up." This person does not like me. That person does not like me. God does not like me. I do not even like myself. Why was I born? You start replaying the same old unkind
messages that were spoken to you in the past and they become your life. The evidence that an Unloving spirit has come
to make its abode within you is that you are constantly struggling with
yourself. That is its nature and it
needs you as a medium of expression.
When you have an Unloving spirit, it wants to go on stage. You are the puppet and it is the hand that
moves you. You are like a puppet going
through the motions by the hand of someone or something else that is making you
say, do, and think. Unloving is one of
the greatest bondages known to mankind.
An Unloving
spirit comes because you have been rejected, usually beginning in your own
families. Especially the dad whose
responsibility is to shower the children and mother with God’s love. Specifically, saying these words “I love you”
over and over throughout their lives.
When someone who is supposed to represent God to you treats you badly,
it creates a breach that only God can heal.
Many times, an Unloving spirit comes into you because you are a
victim. The people victimizing you will
tell you it is all your fault and they would not be victimizing you if you had
not been bad in a certain way. This
happens in marriages, in families and in any relationship. God intended the man (father/husband) to be
in charge and represent Him as Father to the family, as Christ is to the
church. Any violation of that produces
an Unloving spirit.
Hebrews
4:13 And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked
and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account.
You must
identify that part of you that is not of God and make it your enemy. Identify those feelings you have when you cannot
look someone in the eye, those feelings that cause you to withdraw in Fear,
those feelings that come when someone says you are beautiful and you think,
"No, I am not." Identify those
feelings that are within you that constantly accuse you to yourself. Those feelings are your enemy because they
are not from God and they are not even from you. They are the voices and the presence of the
Unloving, unclean spirit, and every spirit that answers to them. They have invaded your spirit and your soul
and have become part of your nature.
Unloving
Part 2
Romans
2:1 Therefore you are inexcusable, O
man, whoever you are who judge, for in whatever you judge another you condemn
yourself; for you who judge practice the same things.
This talks
about pointing a finger at another.
"You, you, you….ou are no good.
If it were not for you...you, you, you." When people are coming at you, accusing you
in the victimization role that will allow the Unloving spirit of Rejection to
come, they themselves have the same problem.
You become the outlet for their frustration and Bitterness. The hatred they have for themselves and the
unlovingness they have concerning themselves is vented on you, so they do not
have to deal with it themselves. You become
their own Self-hatred and Self-bitterness, and unlovingness. You take it into yourself and now you become
an extension of it.
To gain
freedom from the Unloving spirit, you must first deal with Bitterness, Envy, Jealousy,
Rejection, self-rejection, self-bitterness, and anger. You must deal with Rejection by others and
forgive those who rejected you. You
also must forgive yourself and accept yourself. Next to God, you ought to be your own best
friend. If you are not prepared to
accept yourself, that is Fear. It
negates God's faith for you.
Deuteronomy
32:10 He found him in a desert land and in the wasteland, a howling wilderness;
He encircled him, He instructed him, He kept him as the apple of His eye.
God is
saying, "From the foundation of the world, I knew you would be here.” I do not care what someone said to you. I do not care who cursed you with their
tongue. You are mine. You are loved. I love you and you are accepted. "You are the apple of my eye." You are the object of God's love. You are the apple of His eye. He has called you out of the desert of life
because He loved you. In the Hebrew
language, when it says you are the apple of His eye, it means the very focus of
His attention is right on you. It does
not make any difference what anyone has said.
When you are born again, that is over with.
Who you
are in love can be complete, and you do not need to receive it from
anyone. If who you are is dependent on
someone being nice to you, it will not work.
You should be complete in yourself and in God and out of that strength
you give unto others.
Unloving
Part 3
Iniquities
(sin) are passed to the next generation when family members vent their
"stuff" on you and you accept it.
If you decide that you are going to walk in the statutes of God, you can
go free from the curse that is coming into you from your ancestry. You do not have to die because of your
ancestral sins. You no longer have to
live with the Unloving spirit that has been in your family tree that has been
transferred from generation to generation breaking down the family tree in rage,
anger, verbal abuse, physical abuse, drivenness and separation from love.
In many
cases, in your life as a child, if you obeyed the law of your mother or father,
whether it was righteous or unrighteous, they would love you. But you needed to receive love whether you
obeyed them or not. Love has nothing to
do with your disobedience; love is unconditional, constant, standard, moving
straight ahead. Children must hear these
words from their parents, “I love you” continuously throughout their
lives. Especially, form the dad.
Matthew
22:37 Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your
heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.
It does not say that you shall obey the Lord
thy God.
John 14:15 If you love me, keep My
commandments.
It does not say if you obey my commandments, I
will love you. God is going to love you
whether you obey His commandments or not.
To defeat
the Unloving spirit, you must leave the spiritual dynamics of your family if
you are of the years of understanding because you have inherited things that
are not of God. If you are going to be a
spiritual man or woman in your own right, you must get away from the things
that are not of God. You must make the
separation spiritually. No longer should
you be the victim of your family iniquities that still want to become part of
your thinking. At the same time, you do
not abandon your family. You must be
diligent towards your family even when they are in sin. So, you pray for them and ask God to
deal with them and then you live your life before God in purity. You can be free and the issues between your
mother and your father and your family do not have to be resolved but they must
be resolved between you and God.
We also need
to take time to teach our children. Most
of the time our children are oppressed by our own ungodly spirituality and our
own hatred is extended to them. They
become an object of our own spiritual problems.
Unloving
Part 4
The Unloving
spirit is an antichrist spirit sent to steal, kill, and destroy You! An antichrist spirit rules over the Unloving
spirit because it refuses to let you accept the love of God, the love yourself,
and the love your neighbor. An
antichrist spirit is any modality or spirituality or statement or existence or
belief that changes any dimension of the Godhead and changes in any dimension
what the Scriptures have said.
Luke
11:21-22 When a strong man, fully armed, guards his own palace, his goods are
in peace. But when a stronger than he comes upon him and overcomes him, he
takes from him all his armor in which he trusted, and divides his spoils.
The Unloving
spirit uses armor to reinforce himself.
I want to help you identify some of the armor that causes the Unloving
spirit to stay in your "palace" and I want to bring it to the light. It cannot stand the light of the Word. It cannot stand the truth because the truth
exposes evil spirits. Satan is the
father of lies, You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your
father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand
in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks
from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it, John 8:44. Satan destroys us with his lies.
"I"
and "I will" are all part of the armor of an Unloving spirit. An antichrist spirit will always protect
itself, develop itself and look into itself.
A spirit that is not antichrist will look past itself and look at the
overall picture around it. Constantly
thinking of yourself is an indication of an Unloving spirit. Self-Idolatry is present. The nature of Satan
is that of self-exhalation. The Unloving
spirit will always exalt itself. It will
seek to destroy Godly love.
All spirits
of Self-Bitterness come out of the evil Unloving spirit. Self-hatred wants you destroyed. It produces suicide. It says, "I need to eliminate myself; I
do not belong here." That is an
antichrist mentality. It is an
antichrist thought coming out of the armor of an Unloving spirit. You do belong here. You must accept the fact that you belong
here. When God saved you, He said you
belong here.
Self-Pity
produces another dimension of the Unloving spirit called the kingdom of Self,
your realities, your perception, your sickness/diseases, your pain, your
theology, your decision about what is right or wrong. The kingdom of Self begins with the kingdom
of something called Self-introspection which causes inversion, looking
inward. When Jesus came and died for
you, He had that moment when he said, "If it be possible, Father, take
this cup from me. Nevertheless, not my
will but thy will be done," Luke 22:42. He looked outward as servant of all. Jesus did not get caught in Self-Pity. Jesus did not have an Unloving spirit.
Unloving
Part 5
The Unloving
spirit and Fear are linked together side by side. Both are antichrist. An Unloving spirit is deeply rooted in
Fear. When you do not like yourself, you
are afraid of yourself and what others may think about you. Fear projects possible failures in how you
think and how you act and constantly attacks self. Fear projects into the future. Then there is Self-rejection that accuses you
to yourself and says that you are a mistake.
Self-hatred and Self-rejection in the Unloving spirit produces one of
the strongest evil principalities in mankind because we are hating and
rejecting and refusing that which God made in His image and that which Jesus
Christ died for. We are special. We are His beloved and we are eternal.
The need for
approval is part of the armor. Your
approval is not from man. If you are
following the Word of God and you have a right spirit, then only God is your
judge.
"Not necessary" is another part of
the armor. "I am not
necessary. I am not important. I am not needed." That is part of
the Unloving profile. "Life
could go on without me and no one would notice that I am missing." Get a hold of the fact that you are
incredibly important. You are what makes
God happy because you have been created for His pleasure.
1Corinthians
12:22-23 No, much rather, those members of the body which seem to be weaker are
necessary. And those members of the body
which we think to be less honorable, on these we bestow greater honor; and our
unpresentable parts have greater modesty.
Never
discount yourself in any area of your life.
It is time to take your place in the land of the living and in the body
of Christ. You are important! God needs you because you are part of his
corporate body on the earth, but the Unloving spirit does not want you to
function in the body. The Unloving
spirit wants to separate you from yourself and others. Part of the Unloving spirits' armor is
division. An Unloving spirit will not
allow you to flow with other people and especially in family. It will divide and conquer you. It is not interested in unity. It is interested in separating you from
yourself, others, and family.
More of the
armor of the Unloving spirit is unbelief and doubt, Self-Doubt, and
Self-Unbelief. People who have an
Unloving spirit cannot look into the pupil of another person's eye for very
long because they get nervous. You
must be able to look in another person's eyes and force the Unloving spirit
aside so you can get into a place of fellowship despite it. To get rid of an Unloving spirit, you must
be in fellowship with others. Fellowship
with God is the beginning.
Unloving
Part 6
Proverbs
18:14 The spirit of a man will sustain him in sickness, but who can bear a
broken spirit?
The Unloving
spirit produces the deepest, deepest breaking of the human spirit. The Unloving spirit can produce pain physically,
neurologically, and spiritually. In the
Unloving spirit, one of the first things that happen to the endocrine system is
a reduction in the secretion of serotonin.
When you have a decreased serotonin level, you do not like yourself, and
if you do not like yourself, it will stay there. The Unloving spirit triggers the
underproduction of serotonin, and that feeling of unloveliness is
reinforced. Now, it is not just
reinforced by a spirit projecting those thoughts into your consciousness or
through your spirit. It is reinforced by
a chemical imbalance that produces a physiological response as well as an
emotional and spiritual one. An
antichrist spirit will always produce pain.
Pain comes with the breaking of the heart, the kingdom of Self. When you start to concentrate on your
spiritual and soulish and biological processes and you become so inverted that
all you can see is yourself, then your body responds accordingly and you have a
manifestation of self.
Self-Mutilation
is a fruit of the Unloving spirit.
Piercing cutting, bulimia, and anorexia are rooted in
Self-Mutilation. When you have an
Unloving spirit that has attached itself to you, it tells you that you are not
the nicest thing God ever created. If
you listen to this long-term, that spirit becomes part of your life. It becomes one with you.
You must
separate yourself from the antichrist spirit in you that is not really
you. Your issues must be
confronted. An Unloving spirit will keep
you from being changed. It will
interfere with everything that God has for you.
Just as Bitterness will keep you from forgiveness of sin in your own
life, an Unloving, unclean spirit will separate you from the love of God. You need to be forgiven of your sins, so that
you will not be separated from the love of God.
If you are separated from the love of God, you cannot possibly love
yourself, and it is impossible for you to receive or love your neighbor. You cannot accept your neighbor if you do not
accept yourself. The spiritual dynamics
are in place that will keep you from walking in the fulfillment and the freedom
of that reality.
Love God
first, love yourself second and everything will fall into place.
These principles are from Scriptures and they will help you recover
yourself from the snare of the devil, to bring you to a place of understanding,
of discernment, and to a place of focus.
The Bible says you are to work out your own salvation daily. You must grab hold of these principles. You must make up your mind that the Unloving
spirit must go.
Philippians
2:12 Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence
only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear
and trembling;
Paul says,
"I find then a law that when I would do good, evil is present with me, for
I delight in the law of God after the inward man." Romans 7:21-22
Romans
7:23 But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind,
and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.
Paul is
saying that there are two laws working within him. Law means precepts, concepts, the Word of
God. The Unloving spirit is banking on
the fact that, with his armor, you will never be who you were created to
be. He is banking on the fact that
something is screaming in your ear’s day and night about who you really
are. You are being programed with an
Unloving spirit. Will you believe the
voices of Self-Pity, self-rejection, self-bitterness, competition, self-pride,
self-enthronement, false piety, self-exaltation, attention getting, excessive
talkativeness, insecurity, drivenness, self-mutilation, excessive eating and
bingeing, self-comparison, self-idolatry, perfectionism, self-torment,
defending oneself, self-doubt, unbelief, self-bitterness, self-resentment,
self-unforgiveness, self-retaliation, self-anger, self-hatred, self-violence, anger,
and suicide? When all of that is
screaming in your head and you are listening to it, you are saying that the law
of God is a lie.
You must
come to a place of perfect peace in four dimensions. The first dimension of peace you need
is with Father God according to truth.... not feelings, not religion, not
emotion, but truth. You need peace in
your doctrines of God and not what man has said. Secondly, you need perfect peace in
your relationship with yourself.
Unloving spirits working in you keep you from peace with yourself. Thirdly, you need perfect peace with
others, regardless of their mentalities or spiritualities. Forth, you must declare your love out loud
for God and yourself many times each day until the Unloving spirit is minimized
and defeated.
You have not
been taught to love yourself, but you have been taught to hate yourself. If
someone did not tell you that you were lovely and wanted, they may have abused
you to the point that you finally believed it anyway. Once that happens, you
are programmed physically and emotionally to abuse from having been abused.
It is time
to stop being tormented by the Unloving spirits that were in your ancestors and
that are in you and your children. It is
time to stop being antichrist yourself and begin to tell the Satan and his
kingdom you are not going to listen to lies anymore. Do not listen to the voices of the past. You do not have to continue to hear the
voices of those who hurt you. If you listen, it is an evil spirit that is
tormenting you with self-rejection and self-hatred and that is the Unloving
spirit. You must fall out of agreement
with them and prepare to walk away from them.
Become aggressive in Jesus name reclaiming your life and tell the
passivity of uncleanness and unloveliness, and Rejection to leave and not come
back.
Unloving
Part 8
All the evil
things that were said or done to you in the past will scar you and make you
feel unlovely but you must understand that in the new birth you became a new
creature. You are not a biological seed
of your ancestry anymore. If you keep
hanging onto your biological ancestry you negate the sonship and daughtership
of the living God.
2
Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old
things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.
You are a
new creature by faith. You must believe
that and accept it. When you became born
again, your spirit came alive to God and you made God the Father your own
"Abba, Father." You must
realize and say to yourself before God, "I am not expendable. God saved me because I am important. I am not going to listen to lies
anymore."
God said in Psalms
139:14 that you, you personally are “fearfully and wonderfully made.” Before you were ever conceived, God saw your
parts and pieces as they were curiously wrought in the bowels of the earth, out
of the dust of the earth. He fashioned
them in his mind and in his creativeness and the genetics of your ancestry from
Adam and Eve and He saw you before you ever came, uniquely individual, uniquely
separate. So separate that your name is
written down in heaven.
You are the
bride of Christ. God loves you no matter
what anyone else said or did to you. If
you cannot believe it and receive it, then you have an antichrist spirit
because you are telling God He is a liar, and you are going to believe the lies
of Satan before you believe the living God who has spoken to you from His
Word. Combine His Word with your
faith. Let God be true and every man a
liar.
To be free
of the Unloving spirit you are going to have to be very subjective in receiving
the love of God your Father, in Jesus Christ, so that your perspective will be
that if anyone smiles at you today, it is just a bonus.
If you are
constantly struggling with yourself, it is time for you to be you. Tell that
Unloving spirit that you do not need it.
You can stand on the stage of life yourself. It is time for you to take back your
identity. If someone does not like you,
it just does not matter. God loves you
and there is no one greater than Him.
Prayer:
Father
God, in Jesus’ name, I renounce and cast out the unloving spirt and all the
evil spirits tied to the unloving spirit.
I cancel the Unloving spirit curse from the past generations and I cancel
the Unloving spirit curse as a partaker of the Unloving spirit. I cancel the Unloving spirit curse in my
children. I declare that God loves me, I
love myself, and God loves my children.
The prayer must
be repeated every time you have that unloving spirit overtake you or your
children. Eventually, the unloving
spirit will be defeated. It is a
process.
