Word Origin 12th Century
I don't think we truly know the meaning of hate and
self-hatred. Yes, we have man's definition, but we don't truly understand what
it means and what it does to us. Most will say "I don't hate" or
"I don't have self-hatred." Yet, our symptoms from sicknesses and
diseases are saying otherwise. We can't be effective in ministry if we don't
know how to identify hatred.
Hatred and self-hatred can be defined as ill will and
resentment towards others or self. Looking at this definition, it is
easy to connect to what hatred we have towards others and ourselves, whereas
before we have denied hating anybody including ourselves. How often have you
heard a person say "I don't hate them" or "I don't hate
myself?" Well, your sickness and disease symptoms are sending us a message
of hatred.
Another word to describe hate is dislike. Again, when you ask someone if they hate
others or self, they usually deny that they have hate. But if you ask the question “Do you dislike
others for what they do” or “Do you dislike what you have done in your life?” Using
the word “dislike” helps us to identify what our true feelings (hate) towards
others and self are.
Ill will or dislike towards ourselves can be:
Regrets |
Physical
Appearance |
Lack of
Accomplishments |
Failures |
Lack of
Education |
Sin |
Not
compassionate |
Difficulty
Showing Love |
Not Worthy to
Be Loved |
Hardness |
Anger Issues |
Feeling
Rejected |
Not a Good
Father |
Not a Good Husband |
Not a Good
Mother |
Not a Good
Wife |
Depression |
Feeling
stupid |
Not as Good
as Others |
Hopelessness |
This produces ill will/dislike (hatred) guilt, shame,
self-condemnation, bitterness, anger, and unloving of others and self. We beat
up ourselves spiritually resulting in physical and emotional sickness and
disease. Again, this is called hatred of others and self, which we fail to acknowledge
as hate. We are missing the point if we don’t identify hate (dislike). We must
deal with hate in our lives. This knowledge is critical for bringing people out
of captivity so that we may be healed, confess your trespasses to one
another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective,
fervent prayer of a righteous, James 5:16).
Hatred and self-hatred are roots that contributes to sickness
and disease:
Arthritis |
Alcoholism |
Alzheimer’s
Disease |
Autoimmune
diseases |
Anorexia Nervosa
/Bulimia |
Aneurysm –
Cerebral |
Binge eating |
Bulimia |
Crohn's
Disease |
Cysts –
Ganglion |
Dementia |
Diabetes Type
I |
Diverticulitis |
Eczema |
Emphysema |
Gallbladder
Disease |
Gallstones |
Gout |
Heavy
Menstrual Bleeding |
High Blood
Pressure |
High Triglycerides |
Impotence |
Infertility –
Men |
Infertility –
Women |
Loss of
Libido |
Lupus |
Menstruation
– Irregular |
Miscarriages
— Multiple |
Osteoarthritis |
Pain –
Chronic |
Pancreatitis |
Premenstrual
Syndrome - PMS |
Prostatitis |
Psoriasis |
Rheumatoid
Arthritis |
Schizophrenia |
Skin Tags |
Social
Anxiety Disorder |
Spinal
Stenosis |
Testosterone
Deficiency |
Thyroid
Issues |
Coronary
Artery Disease |
Compromised
Immune System |
Allergies |
Hemorrhoids |
Get
rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all
types of evil behavior, Ephesians 4:31.
Conclusion: Hatred is sin.
God wants us to confess this as sin, we ask God to forgive us, and we
repent). If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our
sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness, 1 John 1:9 Whoever hides
hatred has lying lips, And whoever spreads slander is a fool.